Here are a few things you should know about me: 1. I mean what I say, and I say what I mean.  2. I don’t usually start fights, but I don’t run from them either. 3. I don’t tolerate disrespect from anyone. 4. I have a great sense of humor and I love to have … Continue Reading

People often think I am considerably younger than my age. And when they find out that I’ve been married for 23 years (to the same man), have an 18 year old son and am 43 years of age, they are shocked to say the least. Their next question is usually, “What’s the secret…is it surgery, … Continue Reading

“A man does not need a crown to be a King….He only needs the love & loyalty of a woman he can call his QUEEN.”  EB’s Characteristics of a QUEEN: 1. She is female. She is strong, caring, compassionate, sensitive and kind. 3. She exercises integrity in all of her dealings. 2. She respects herself, … Continue Reading

There is nothing worse than waking up to the consequences of our actions and realizing that we don’t have anyone to blame for our circumstances but ourselves. It is a reality I know all too well and one I don’t wish on anyone. When we are the most prideful, everyone around us can see it … Continue Reading

As women, when we are young, we can’t wait to get older, and when we are older, we try so hard to stay young! This statement is a true testament that women are seldom satisfied…we always want what we don’t have!!! I am no exception to the rule. I have been lying about my age … Continue Reading

I think it’s safe to say that most people want to win and don’t enjoy losing regardless of the circumstances. However, there is something to be said for the individual who understands that even the best of the best don’t win all the time. Sometimes the shots don’t fall, the passes aren’t caught and the … Continue Reading

Women lie about allot of things. We lie about our age, size, weight, and number of sexual partners. We often pretend that we are fulfilled sexually when we are not. We avoid telling our girlfriends the truth about their appearance…that they need to update their hair-style, makeup and overall look. We seldom make the time … Continue Reading

TRUTH: The pill that everyone wants to prescribe for others, but are seldom willing to swallow themselves. Women love to shed light on the lies men tell but the truth is that we tell lies too! The business of truth works both ways, we have to be just as willing to “hear” the truth from … Continue Reading

The truth is that smart, really intelligent people understand that beauty in and of itself is really not that important in the big scheme of things. Does beauty make for pretty pictures? ABSOLUTELY! But hopefully what we have to offer to the world is greater than a pretty picture. I found out that beauty is … Continue Reading

I was recently asked this question by a young woman who is courageously growing into her womanhood. As you can imagine, I was caught off guard by her question because I have never been asked that before. I didn’t have an answer off-the cuff which was surprising because I am seldom at a loss for … Continue Reading