This question is arguably the most important revelation of a person’s life. Your movements, actions and intentions are symbolically a conversation you have with the world about who you are. I have found this question to be dynamic in nature, it changes with age, exposure and experience.

What I know for sure is that it is extremely difficult to accomplish great things in life if you have difficulty answering this very basic question. Yet, how many of us can answer this question off-the-cuff, with ease, grace and confidence? My guess is that only a small percentage of us have taken the time to ponder who we are and what our actions, reactions and deeds communicate to the world at large about what we think of ourselves.

The truth is that when I was asked this question by my beloved @holtonbuggs the very 1st time, I was at a loss for words. The obvious roles I play in the lives of others came naturally, such as wife, mother, daughter, and friend. But somehow I knew that he was looking for an answer far beyond the obvious and much deeper than I had ever had the courage to go. This exchange turned out to be the conversation of my life. Because from that moment until this very day, everything I’ve thought, said or did has been inspired by my answer to his question. I will always be grateful to him for the conversation that changed the direction of my life and helped me to see that I had the ability to make a positive contribution to the world at large.

If you are someone who desires to make a positive impact in the lives of others, I would encourage you to start by answering 2 of the most important questions you’ll ever answer about yourself:

1. Who am I?

2. What do I want?

The answers to these very simple questions are the foundation for every ounce of success my beloved and I have accomplished in love, life and business. 💗EB #WiiN #iWiN #GetYourWiiN #EarleneBuggs #HoltonBuggs #EBsPinkNotes💗



Dear Mrs. Earlene, I am a child of the One True King. I earnestly desire that He gets the glory for all He does through my life. I want to set the world on fire. I want the every day actions I do to be done with an attitude of humility and service. With quality, initiative and integrity. I want to lead a life of service in love to many. I am inspired and want to be fulfilled by living a full life of significance. To speak and act with wisdom. To give back.
With Love,


Naomi, thank-you so very much for your comment. Knowing who you are and what you want is the very 1st step toward the life you deserve. Don’t you ever quit until you get your WiiN! ❤️EB


I am Nicole Smiles a mother a wife a friend! I am powerful loving devoted I am reaching even when it seems to high! I am developing into the true me in part to this wonderful WiiN movement! Just believe there was a time when I thought this was not for me. Now I see I was already a flower just had no idea of the kind and what fragrance I release! What I’m trying to say humbly is thank you! I am a women who WiiN! Thank you Mrs. Buggs and all the WiiN ladies everywhere! 😊💕 Smilealways


Nicole, thank-you so very much for your comment! I’m excited that you have found a new sense of self. The most beautiful thing you can do for yourself is to find the courage to let your light shine for all to see. I’m grateful to have you apart of the #WiiNingTeam. 💛EB

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